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But What Will I Wear?! | 5 Ways to Choose Outfits for Your Next Session

But What Will I Wear?! | 5 Ways to Choose Outfits for Your Next Session

5 Ways to choose outfits for your session

Boudoir is more than just lingerie — it’s about feeling powerful, confident, and completely you. But if you’ve ever stood in front of your closet thinking

“I have no idea what to wear,”

you’re not alone. Whether it’s your first session or your fifth, the right outfit can help you show up authentically and feel amazing in front of the camera.

At our body-positive boudoir studio, we believe there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. That’s why we’ve curated five different ways to approach choosing your outfits — from timeless staples to bold, personal statements — with something for every body, every vibe, and every level of daring.

(Plus, don’t miss details about our expansive client closet and our one-of-a-kind G.A.P.T.A.P. exchange program!)

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Shop with Intention: Flatter Your Favorite Features

Start by asking yourself:

 

“What part of my body do I want to highlight or celebrate today?”

 

Whether it’s your curves, your legs, your tattoos, or your back, choosing outfits that draw the eye where you want can be incredibly empowering.

Pro Tips:

💋 High-waisted bottoms are great for enhancing the waist and elongating legs.

💋 Bodysuits work beautifully for all body types and give a sleek, supported silhouette.

💋 Plunge necklines or open backs add drama while showcasing skin in an elegant way.

Play with Color: Move Beyond Black

While black is a classic for a reason (hello, dramatic lighting!), don’t be afraid to bring in color and texture that matches your personality or mood.

Consider:

  • Deep Jewel Tones like emerald, plum, or navy for richness and sophistication

  • Soft Pastels like lavender, blush, or sky blue for a dreamy, ethereal vibe

  • Bold Neons or reds if you want to bring energy and power to your shoot

Pssst…

Metallics, velvet, mesh, and lace can add dimension and style, especially under studio lights.

Classic Staples: You Can’t Go Wrong With These

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, lean into the classics. These tried-and-true pieces look amazing on everyone and photograph beautifully.

Boudoir Classics to Consider:

  • Black lace bralette and high-waisted panties

  • Oversized button-up shirt (yes, even your partner’s!)

  • Sheer robe or kimono

  • Thigh-high stockings or garter belt sets

  • Silk slip dress

Dare to Be Different: Unique, Bold & Personal Pieces

Want to stand out and make your session completely your own? Bring something unexpected. Your shoot is a perfect place to be expressive, daring, or playful — whatever that means for you.

Think outside the (lingerie) box:

🖤 Leather harnesses or body chains

🖤 Sheer mesh bodysuits with bold patterns

🖤 Statement corsets or vintage bustiers

🖤 Theme-based looks

(Think pin-up, witchy, soft goth, retro, etc.)

🖤 Personal items — a favorite hat, guitar, team jersey, cosplay gear, or even body paint

Check Out Our Client Closet (It's Huge!)

Not sure what fits your vibe yet? No worries — our massive, beautifully inspiring client closet is bursting with options in a wide range of sizes, styles, and aesthetics. From classic to couture, sheer to structured, our pieces are curated with all bodies in mind.

And don’t forget about our exclusive G.A.P.T.A.P. Give A Piece, Take A Piece) program. It’s our community-driven exchange rack where clients can donate a gently loved item and take home something fresh for their personal wardrobe.

At the end of the day, your boudoir session is about celebrating you — not fitting into anyone else’s idea of “sexy.” The right outfit is the one that makes you feel strong, seen, and ready to own your space in front of the camera.

So whether you’re bringing your own, borrowing from our client closet, or swapping something on the G.A.P.T.A.P. rack, our team is here to help you feel fabulous from the inside out.

We can’t wait to see what you bring to life.

 

Still looking for more inspiration? Want to ask our community what their favorite suggestions are? Head on over to our socials to get in on the conversation – what incredible outfit do you have squirreled away for your session!?

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